1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:03,400 This programme contains strong language 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:05,160 Today is now or never. Everything is riding on this. 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:06,720 Previously... I've had relationships, 4 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:08,760 but never the kind that last forever. 5 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,400 ..six brave new singles said "I do." 6 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:15,440 Hi. You look amazing. 7 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:16,560 While there was an immediate 8 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:18,640 attraction for April and Leo... 9 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:19,680 We've just hit it off. 10 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,040 The chemistry is just there. 11 00:00:21,080 --> 00:00:22,080 Hello. 12 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:23,200 ..Leisha's energy levels... 13 00:00:23,240 --> 00:00:24,440 Ahhh! 14 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:26,360 ..rang alarm bells for Reiss. 15 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:27,720 She's 100 miles an hour... 16 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,000 ..that I hope doesn't turn to 1,000 miles an hour. 17 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:33,960 But for Abigail and John... 18 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:35,080 Stunning eyes! 19 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:36,920 ..it was a fairy tale beginning. 20 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:38,960 Think I have met my Prince Charming. 21 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:40,000 Tonight... 22 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:41,960 The last week was genuinely hellish. 23 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:43,600 ..the last of the in-laws visits... 24 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:45,880 Muttered under my breath, just, like, "BLEEP idiot." 25 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:47,800 What possessed you? Is that normal. 26 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:49,680 ..triggers words of warning for Nelly. 27 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:51,200 I don't think it's OK. 28 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:52,240 You can't accept that. 29 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:54,960 When we were all in the pub... 30 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:56,320 While a new truth... 31 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:57,800 ..you're like, "What would be your normal type?" 32 00:00:57,840 --> 00:00:59,440 I was like, "Dark hair, gym girl." 33 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:00,600 You've been telling me this whole time 34 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:02,240 that that conversation never happened. 35 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:05,280 ..threatens to pull Leah and Leigh's marriage apart. 36 00:01:05,320 --> 00:01:06,600 I don't like being lied to. 37 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:09,080 And... 38 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:10,280 This is so exciting. 39 00:01:10,320 --> 00:01:12,680 ..the final three couples... 40 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:13,800 Wow. 41 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:15,160 ..embark on their honeymoons. 42 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:16,840 You're really good with your hands. 43 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,160 As Abigail and John fall deeper... 44 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:20,320 This is incredible. 45 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:21,360 ..April and Leo... 46 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:23,600 Have I already seen Hot Dog's hot dogs? 47 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:25,000 Sexy, sex, sex. 48 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,040 ..discover that physical intimacy... 49 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:29,960 I don't shag and brag. 50 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,520 ..doesn't always lead to a deeper connection. 51 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:34,640 I almost feel like I lead the conversations quite a lot. 52 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:36,200 We haven't had a lot of time 53 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,960 to actually sit down and ask personal questions. 54 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:40,000 I disagree. 55 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,480 And Leisha's need for reassurance... 56 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:46,200 Do you visualise me in your future? 57 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:48,000 ..pushes Reiss to breaking point. 58 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:49,880 Don't need pressure yet. It's so early! 59 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,000 Can't believe Leisha just asked me that. Is she joking? 60 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:53,640 BLEEP hell! Jesus! 61 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,360 Finally touched down in Bangkok. 62 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:04,880 It's day one of the honeymoon for the experiment's 63 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:06,000 three new couples. 64 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:07,480 I can't believe we're finally here. 65 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:09,320 I know. This is so exciting. 66 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:10,560 Oh, my God! 67 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,360 Oh, my God, it's so big! 68 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,240 This is stunning. 69 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:16,360 Oh! 70 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:18,280 Wow. 71 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,000 That's Leisha, and that's Reiss. 72 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,760 Mmm! Smooching away. 73 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:24,920 No way. There's a sauna in here. 74 00:02:25,920 --> 00:02:28,440 Jacuzzi, sauna, double shower, bed. 75 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:30,280 In that order. Yeah. 76 00:02:41,640 --> 00:02:42,720 Oh, wow. 77 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:43,760 This is beautiful. 78 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:45,480 This place is so romantic. 79 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:47,760 The perfect honeymoon destination 80 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,800 to take our relationship to the next level. 81 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:52,280 I mean, if we don't fall in love here, 82 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,120 I don't know how else we would be able to, to be honest. 83 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,280 Well, I am ready to fall in love. 84 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:58,320 Me too. 85 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:01,120 He's ticking so many boxes. 86 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:06,200 Like, even boxes that I didn't know I needed ticked. 87 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:08,560 And I'm trying not to get too excited 88 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:10,840 cos surely this is too good to be true. 89 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:20,880 Oh, my God, this is so cute! 90 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:25,400 I love it. 91 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,640 Initial attraction is definitely there. 92 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:28,880 Sexy. 93 00:03:28,920 --> 00:03:30,840 Sexy, sex, sex. 94 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:35,200 Doesn't look like we're downstairs tonight. 95 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:36,240 Nah. 96 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:39,880 No. I'm really looking forward to sharing a bed with April. 97 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:42,000 Gonna have to warm each other up somehow. 98 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:44,520 I hope she's a good cuddler. 99 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,240 There's definitely sexual chemistry. There's definitely chemistry there. 100 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,360 Oh, definitely. We'll see where it takes us. 101 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:54,760 If you're lucky. 102 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,720 I'm feeling lucky. Yeah? 103 00:03:57,760 --> 00:03:58,920 Me too. 104 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:00,920 You know, do it when it's right. 105 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:02,720 Yeah, when the time's right. Yeah? 106 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:04,920 Tonight? No, I'm joking. No. Maybe. I don't know. 107 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:08,040 I definitely fancy him. 108 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:09,640 Have I already seen Hot Dog's hot dog? 109 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:15,360 No, I have not. 110 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:16,840 But I don't doubt I will soon. 111 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:19,400 It's gonna get dirty. 112 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:27,440 What's it like? A little test that. 113 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,720 I am 100% giddy when I'm around Reiss. 114 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:35,320 I'm, like, flooded with, like, happiness and the love hormone. 115 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,680 You know, I don't know what it's called. Endorphins. 116 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:39,720 I'm flooded with endorphins right now. 117 00:04:40,840 --> 00:04:42,720 Husband. 118 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:43,760 Wife. It's mad, isn't it? 119 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:45,800 Crazy. Like, we're just married. 120 00:04:45,840 --> 00:04:46,840 Crazy. 121 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:49,680 It's gonna take, like, definitely another day for it to sink in. 122 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:52,840 I'm liking Leisha. I'm liking a company. 123 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,000 Like, I fancy her. 124 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:57,600 We bounce off each other, but Leisha is quite full-on, 125 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:02,640 whereas I take my time and then see where the relationship progresses. 126 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:04,720 Being trapped with me on a flight for 12 hours. 127 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:07,600 That was, that was a challenge. 128 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:08,960 Was that intense for you, was it? 129 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:10,240 It was a bit. 130 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:13,240 I've just never... 131 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:15,360 Oh, sorry. 132 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:18,920 In the past, Leisha has struggled to find love. 133 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:20,440 It's OK, darling. 134 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:23,800 Like, I seem to give all my love to someone. Mm. 135 00:05:23,840 --> 00:05:27,560 And for them, it's like, "Oh, she's too much, she's too much." 136 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,800 All I want is to find someone. 137 00:05:29,840 --> 00:05:31,000 And on their wedding day, 138 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:34,520 her barrage of questions left Reiss overwhelmed. 139 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:36,720 What's your ex's been like? What have they been like? 140 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:37,760 Were different. 141 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:40,120 So you don't have like a preference relation? No. 142 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,440 Were you on the dating apps? No, I don't do dating apps. 143 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:44,440 What would you call your child? 144 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:48,240 It was like getting analysed, and she's just constant. 145 00:05:48,280 --> 00:05:49,920 Reiss and Leisha. Leisha and Reiss. 146 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:50,960 It's nice. 147 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,600 How do you feel about spending, like, all your time with me now? 148 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:56,800 Mm. I don't know. 149 00:05:56,840 --> 00:06:00,000 It's definitely going to be a test and a challenge. 150 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:05,120 I'm just really worried that, like, us spending all this time together, 151 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:08,520 that it's going to put him off, it's gonna put him off for life. 152 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:09,720 And I'm a lot. 153 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:11,000 I'm a lot, a lot, a lot. 154 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:18,720 What are you doing in there? 155 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:19,960 I'm just remaking your bed. 156 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:21,480 I've already made the bed. 157 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,040 In London... 158 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:24,600 You want a little bit of honey in your tea? 159 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:26,960 I don't really want a tea, but go for it. 160 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:28,960 ..In-Laws week is well under way. 161 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:30,480 Is there anything you're worried about? 162 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:31,520 About tonight? 163 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,120 And after a difficult few days, 164 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:36,680 Nelly and Steven are preparing for the arrival of her family. 165 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:40,280 Probably the worst news possible is having the in-laws come in. 166 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:42,880 Like, timings of everything just seemed well off. 167 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:47,240 You're speaking about ex-partners that you've been with on the night 168 00:06:47,280 --> 00:06:49,720 when you should have been at home with me. Oh, wow. 169 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:50,760 I wasn't. 170 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:53,160 After an explosive dinner party... 171 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:56,120 And I'm not finding it very funny, OK? 172 00:06:57,520 --> 00:06:59,560 Ain't going over there. Fuck them. 173 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,200 ..a careless comment from Steven the next morning. 174 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:05,920 Sorry? ..added more fuel to the fire. 175 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:07,800 Said, "Fucking idiot." 176 00:07:07,840 --> 00:07:10,840 And a challenging commitment ceremony followed for the couple. 177 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,320 You called me, you said... No, I know, but... "You fucking idiot." 178 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:16,880 You're a grown man in control of the words that come out of your mouth. 179 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:26,320 Could be an awkward dinner. 180 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:28,880 My intentions now is just obviously be clear and real with them. 181 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:31,720 Like, there's no point hiding from any truths. 182 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,800 Tell them that, "Yes, we've had a bit of a rough time this week." 183 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:36,000 But could be awkward. 184 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:47,720 Morning. Morning. 185 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:49,440 How'd you sleep? Good. 186 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:51,160 How'd you sleep? Yeah, really good. 187 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:53,520 Doesn't feel unnatural sharing a bed, though, does it? 188 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,400 No. Yeah, we had a little spoon. 189 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:01,720 We definitely had a spoon last night, and, um... 190 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:06,360 ..I won't say any more on that subject. 191 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:08,720 I don't shag and brag. 192 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:11,920 I had a really good night. 193 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:13,160 It was fun, wasn't it? 194 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:19,000 Ah, yeah, we're getting on? 195 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:21,960 We're getting on. 196 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,840 It comes quite naturally, I think, to both of us. 197 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:26,920 It's coming along. 198 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:28,440 Definitely a romantic villa. 199 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,360 How nice is this? 200 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,680 Can you actually believe we've only known each other, 201 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,000 like, two days? 202 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:46,680 That's scary. I know quite a lot of information about you. 203 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:49,200 Yeah. You don't know that much about me, don't you? 204 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:51,120 Yeah, I feel like you don't give too much away. 205 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:52,840 I'm really looking forward to just to kind of get 206 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:55,200 a deeper understanding of who Reiss is. 207 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,520 He's my husband now, and I need to know him to the core. 208 00:08:58,560 --> 00:09:00,840 But, like, I feel like he's a bit of a closed book. 209 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:05,680 How long have you been single before getting married? 210 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:06,920 It's ten months. 211 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:09,640 What do you think you've learnt from, like, previous relationships, 212 00:09:09,680 --> 00:09:14,080 and what you'll take into, like, now...with me? 213 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,880 I think to communicate more is what I've learnt. 214 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:18,400 Like, in previous relationships, 215 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:22,880 I could go a bit like not being, um, that open with my emotions. 216 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:24,800 Yeah. And, like, shutting off. 217 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:27,120 That's my worst fear. 218 00:09:28,560 --> 00:09:31,280 What? Because if you go, like, silent, 219 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:33,200 it makes me panic. 220 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:34,520 Silent treatment is no good, is it? 221 00:09:34,560 --> 00:09:36,040 No, cos then it freaks me out. 222 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:38,760 Communication is key. 223 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,320 Me and Reiss are very, very different in, you know, 224 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:42,440 our relationship style. 225 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:44,280 So he very much needs his own space, 226 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:46,920 whereas I'm very much all guns blazing. 227 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:48,520 I need him to communicate with me, 228 00:09:48,560 --> 00:09:50,880 so we don't have, like, issues going forward. 229 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:53,240 Like, we're obviously going to argue at some point. 230 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:56,360 Are you, like, first hurdle, you run off? 231 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:58,920 Maybe I have in the past, like, thrown the towel in too, 232 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:00,280 like, maybe a bit quick. 233 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:03,040 OK. I will put some more effort into that. 234 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:04,920 Good. 235 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:06,400 I feel like we're a little bit different, 236 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:09,360 but I won't go into like full detail about 237 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:12,960 everything as quickly as Leisha does. 238 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:16,080 So like that, that could, like, cause maybe a bit of friction. 239 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:22,280 Do you feel like you're, like, falling for me, though? 240 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:23,720 Do you feel like you like me? 241 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:24,960 Falling for you? 242 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:27,400 Easy, girl. 243 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:29,000 It's been like two days. 244 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:31,160 Yeah, but, you know, you're not like, "No." 245 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:36,880 Falling? Yeah. Strong word. Is it? 246 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:38,120 A strong word, is it? 247 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:40,040 It's a strong word for this time. Oh, no. 248 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:43,560 Can't believe Leisha just asked me that. Is she joking? 249 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:46,920 That's definitely a bit soon. 250 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:49,440 Like, literally just met her a few days ago. 251 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:51,960 Come on. It's way too soon to be, like, falling for anyone. 252 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:02,360 They're here. 253 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,840 I am really disheartened that this In-Laws Week 254 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,000 has sort of come at the wrong time for us. 255 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:09,160 I love my sister and brother, but ideally, I want to see them 256 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:10,840 in a couple of weeks' time when we're in a better place. 257 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:12,240 We missed you a lot. 258 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:14,560 I am concerned telling my sister and brother 259 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:15,840 what Steven's done the last week, 260 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:17,840 what he called me in the morning. 261 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:19,680 It's something I don't want to tell them, but I have to. 262 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:21,120 I can't lie to my siblings. 263 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:25,960 First of all, how was your honeymoon? 264 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:27,600 It was fun, wasn't it? Honeymoon. Amazing. 265 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:29,360 Ten over ten. Best time ever. Really? 266 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:30,840 Came back to the apartment. 267 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:32,960 It's been a really bad week. OK. 268 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:35,680 I broke my rib. 269 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:36,840 You broke a rib? Yeah. Yes. 270 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:40,640 The night that I broke my rib... 271 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:43,080 ..you went out with the boys. 272 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:47,080 He was the last person to come home out of everybody. 273 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:50,680 I was obviously quite upset cos all the girls 274 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:52,640 obviously came round to see how I was. 275 00:11:52,680 --> 00:11:55,480 I just felt like, "Well, everyone else is here, so why isn't my man?" 276 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,960 Nelly, you've broken a rib, and you were at the pub. 277 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:04,680 That does ring alarm bells a little. Yeah, I think it was the pub thing. 278 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:06,040 Yeah. 279 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:11,000 Yeah, I get that. 280 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:14,160 And I held my hands up to that poor judgment on my behalf. 281 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:18,720 What had happened is that my stepdad was in hospital, so I was all up, 282 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:20,080 like, I got emotional, didn't I? 283 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:21,840 I said later on, didn't I, like, the marriage 284 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:23,800 wasn't my number one priority last week? Yeah. 285 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:25,760 I just couldn't... I just wanted to know he was OK. 286 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:28,720 It's not going to happen again, for sure. 287 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:32,880 How has it been since? 288 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:39,840 We had a bicker, didn't we, 289 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:41,760 the morning of the commitment ceremony? 290 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:44,960 And it got to a point where it was like we were just going 291 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:46,280 round and round in circles. 292 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:47,720 And I was muttered under my breath, 293 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:48,920 just like... 294 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:51,160 .."Fucking idiot." 295 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,120 What possessed you? Is that normal? 296 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:00,360 It was a massive shock to hear that. 297 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:03,200 Mm. It does ring alarm bells. 298 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:07,400 I tried to explain to you, it was more about the situation, 299 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:10,120 when, obviously, of course, it doesn't sound that way cos it was 300 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:11,720 more like I've called her a fucking idiot. 301 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:13,640 Just own it. 302 00:13:13,680 --> 00:13:15,640 And learn. And learn from it. 303 00:13:15,680 --> 00:13:17,000 Yeah. That's what you want, right? Yeah. 304 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:24,200 Well, I'm gonna take the bins out... 305 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:26,640 ..and I'll see yous in a bit. 306 00:13:26,680 --> 00:13:27,680 Catch you in a bit. 307 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:35,880 All right, truth time. 308 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,040 So last week was genuinely hellish. 309 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:45,120 You say you like and care about me... Mm. 310 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:46,560 ..but you ain't behaving like that. 311 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:47,640 Showing it. 312 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:52,120 That comment doesn't help either. 313 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:53,200 I don't think it's OK. 314 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:55,760 You can't accept that. 315 00:13:57,640 --> 00:13:59,440 It's fully a red flag. Let's call it for what it is. 316 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:02,600 If he's behaving like this next week, 317 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,920 then I'd be like, "Well, mate, like this is clearly who you are." 318 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:07,440 Like, "I'm not interested. See you later." 319 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,360 Just from what we've heard and seen today... 320 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:12,760 ..it's... It's got to change. 321 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:15,680 Steven needs to be more present. 322 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:16,880 He definitely needs to up his game. 323 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,520 He's got to look after her, ultimately. Yeah. 324 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,040 He's got to put her happiness at his priority, and I don't think... 325 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:24,520 It's definitely not there right now. 326 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:27,920 Just to be alert. Mm. 327 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:29,480 Their backs are up now. 328 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:31,640 They've got those alarm bells going. 329 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:35,600 He really needs to show me that he cares. 330 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:37,600 Steven has got quite a bit of work to do. 331 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:51,360 Go easy on one of them for me, please. 332 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:53,760 Sous-chef... Sous-chef. ..doesn't decide. 333 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:56,440 For the newly married couples, 334 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,040 the honeymoons are in full swing. 335 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:01,720 This is insane. It's incredible. 336 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:03,560 What a honeymoon. Jesus! 337 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:13,680 Watch this bit. 338 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:14,960 Baby. Uh-oh, shall I go down first? 339 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:16,120 Yeah. 340 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,680 Me and John definitely are getting closer and closer. 341 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:20,600 We've had lots of deep conversations, 342 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:23,560 and it's really nice to have a partner that's so supportive. 343 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:26,200 My guard definitely is going down, 344 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:29,840 and I feel more and more comfortable with him every single day. 345 00:15:29,880 --> 00:15:32,160 Wow, how stunning are these views? 346 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:33,280 Amazing, aren't they? 347 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:35,440 Gorgeous. 348 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:38,200 Wow, from every angle as well. 349 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:41,800 This view is good. Aw. 350 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:43,080 Start making me blush. 351 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:49,800 It's honestly been the most incredible experience. 352 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:52,520 It just makes me think like how incredibly lucky 353 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:55,240 I am that you were the one that was waiting for me. 354 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:56,400 Yeah, I feel the same. 355 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:01,000 Like...this smile hasn't left my face since I met you, really. 356 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:05,320 In past relationships, 357 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:08,640 I feel like I couldn't be myself, 358 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:11,880 or like wasn't enough for people. 359 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:15,320 So far, you've given me the confidence that 360 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:17,320 it's not going to go wrong. 361 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:19,080 Yeah, 362 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:22,840 For me, I guess like an insecurity of mine is, like, things are 363 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:25,560 so amazing, and I'm, like, I'm scared to get hurt. 364 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:27,520 I'm like, "How can I be so lucky, like, this time?" 365 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:31,240 And I'm just terrified that, you know, that it will end. 366 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:34,320 Cos through previous relationships, 367 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:36,160 you know, just when I thought, like, things were getting good, 368 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:38,120 then it's kind of ended, so. 369 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:41,840 Because the reason why I do have my walls up 370 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:46,040 is just because of a past specific situation. 371 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:55,000 I was...dating this guy. 372 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:57,480 You know, he seemed to like tick all the right boxes, 373 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:00,480 and, like, things were going really well. 374 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:03,640 He kind of, like, talking more about, like, the future and... 375 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:06,320 ..and kind of like planning forward, 376 00:17:06,360 --> 00:17:08,160 like, planning our life. 377 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:11,760 But...one day, um... 378 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:18,360 ..I basically received this phone call, and... 379 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:22,360 ..on the end of the phone, 380 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:23,920 it was his wife. 381 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:28,440 Oh, wow. 382 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:31,000 He basically... 383 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:34,480 He lied to me the whole time and told me that he, 384 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:35,880 you know, was single, and... 385 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:38,680 ..you know, single for like a long time, 386 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:43,480 and just kind of concealed that he had this separate life. 387 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:46,200 So he basically was living two lives, 388 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:49,480 and his whole entire life was a lie. 389 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:51,000 I was just absolutely just... 390 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:55,800 ..heartbroken, devastated. 391 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:58,720 Like, it made me lose faith 392 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:01,160 in myself of being able to pick someone. 393 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:04,640 And I guess that's why I just, after that, I put my guards up. 394 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:10,560 Such a hurtful time and a difficult time 395 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:13,880 where I felt so deceived and made me feel like 396 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:16,160 in one of the like lowest points in my life. 397 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:18,320 It took me a lot of time to, like, 398 00:18:18,360 --> 00:18:21,680 recover from that and get to where I am now. 399 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:23,320 I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. 400 00:18:23,360 --> 00:18:26,600 You know, I want to protect you from kind of sad feelings. 401 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:28,320 I hate that you've hurt... 402 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:32,080 so I fully understand why your guards are up. 403 00:18:32,120 --> 00:18:35,160 That's such a huge thing to overcome. 404 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:39,360 But then I also see it as like an opportunity for me to go, 405 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:43,280 "Right, OK. Like, show Abi that that was wrong 406 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:46,640 "and that I'm not hiding anything. 407 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:48,720 "I'm a complete open book. 408 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:50,640 "I'm not going anywhere." 409 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:53,240 It's pretty extreme what she told me. 410 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,720 I feel gutted that Abi's had to go through that. 411 00:18:55,760 --> 00:19:00,960 I don't want somebody as amazing as Abi to ever feel hurt like that. 412 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:02,960 It's my job to make sure 413 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:05,560 that Abi doesn't feel like I'm the one that's going to hurt her. 414 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:09,880 Everything that you're saying, like, 100% trust, and already, like, 415 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:13,160 my walls are so much lower than when I first met you. 416 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:15,200 Each day, they're getting lower and lower. 417 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:19,400 And, like, you being patient, like, that's like all that I ask. 418 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:20,640 Don't worry. 419 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:22,680 I know that it's going to take more than just 420 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:25,000 a few days on a honeymoon for us to get there, 421 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:26,440 and I'm willing to wait for you. 422 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:27,680 Do you think I'm worth the wait? 423 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:28,720 Course you are. 424 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:34,600 The way John has made me feel shows me how connected we actually are. 425 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:37,320 It makes me feel amazing cos I've never had that before. 426 00:19:37,360 --> 00:19:40,960 And just to be with a partner that's so supportive 427 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:44,600 and is not going to judge me based on my past experiences, 428 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:47,240 it just helps me kind of like open up to him more 429 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:51,720 and let that guard down and just fully commit to him. 430 00:19:59,360 --> 00:20:00,440 What are you excited to try? 431 00:20:00,480 --> 00:20:02,040 Erm... Rats? Scorpions? 432 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:04,840 No, no, no. Definitely not. 433 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:05,920 Just got to the market. 434 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:08,440 I'm looking at mangoes left, right, and centre. 435 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:12,840 Frogs' asses, chicken skin, all sorts of strange things. 436 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:13,920 That looks like a mango. 437 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:16,400 But we're gonna try and buy... Like, healthy shit. 438 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,960 Healthy stuff. Like, look at this watermelon. 439 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:20,120 I do love mango. 440 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:21,560 Let's look for a good mango. 441 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,520 Reiss loves a mango. 442 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,440 Is this mango? No, it's apple. 443 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:28,120 All he says is, "Mango, mango, mango, mango, mango," 444 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:29,280 when in reality, I just want him to say, 445 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:31,200 "Leisha, Leisha, Leisha, Leisha, Leisha." 446 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:34,920 Cut the mango, start I'm thinking of me, babe, OK? 447 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:36,800 What's that? That is a mango. 448 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:41,000 Oh. Ah. It's nice. 449 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:42,200 That's lovely. 450 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,240 You feel privileged to be married to me, yeah? 451 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:45,280 Yeah. 452 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,000 Yeah, you blinked there. That's a lie. 453 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,040 Really? Like. 454 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:51,080 Can you tell what lies are? Yeah, yeah. 455 00:20:51,120 --> 00:20:52,320 Really? 456 00:20:52,360 --> 00:20:53,840 No. I know you're lying. 457 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,120 You think I'm lying? Yeah. Do you? Yeah. 458 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,040 You think I don't feel privileged to be married to you? 459 00:20:58,080 --> 00:20:59,080 You should be. 460 00:20:59,120 --> 00:21:00,680 Yeah, but you just said that I'm lying. 461 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:02,440 Yeah, cos you clearly don't feel it. 462 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:03,480 But you should be. 463 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,000 You are a bit like... 464 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,000 Do you know what I mean? You... What? 465 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:09,200 I don't know. Feel like you're like, 466 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:10,480 you rush it, do you know what I'm saying? 467 00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:13,040 It's only been like two or three days. Like, Jesus. Like... 468 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:16,160 Yeah. 469 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,640 I know what I want. Mm. I've said it right from the start. 470 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,160 If I don't feel like it's going to progress at all, 471 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,320 I'm happy to cut it. 472 00:21:23,360 --> 00:21:26,400 OK. Cos I know there's, like, so many potential people 473 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:29,080 that would love to have me as a partner. OK. 474 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:32,120 No, you got know your worth, you know what I mean? Yeah. 475 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:33,520 And I'm just too old to be playing, 476 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,160 like, peekaboo with a fully grown man. 477 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:39,280 So what is it that you want? 478 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,640 A man that knows what he wants. 479 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:43,760 A man that knows what he wants? 480 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:45,200 Yeah. What, after, like, three days? 481 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,760 Well, you should know what you want before. 482 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,400 You need to tell me. 483 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:51,280 It's like, "What do you want?" 484 00:21:52,360 --> 00:21:53,920 If you can't give me that clear indication of 485 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:56,040 where you see yourself in five years, 486 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:57,960 that's a worry to me. 487 00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,360 Fucking hell. Jesus. 488 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,320 How am I supposed to tell you if we're gonna make it five years 489 00:22:02,360 --> 00:22:03,680 down the line, three days in? 490 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:04,880 I ain't got that answer yet. 491 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:22,920 You all right? 492 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,600 Yeah, fine, I was just being stupid. 493 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:38,920 April, she's a stunner. 494 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:40,520 She's great at skiing. 495 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:43,560 She's definitely living up to what I've expected. 496 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:46,440 I'm just wondering whether I'm doing 497 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,240 as much for her as she is doing for me. 498 00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:51,080 The skiing was amazing, wasn't it? Yeah, right. 499 00:22:51,120 --> 00:22:52,480 It was so good. 500 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,400 So, Mr Adrenaline Junkie, what other stuff have you done? 501 00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:58,520 So, I can fire juggle. That's mad. 502 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:00,160 I've set myself on fire a few times. 503 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:01,560 Oh, my God! 504 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,880 But I need to have a few drinks before I do it, normally. 505 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:05,440 Maybe that's why you're burning yourself. Probably. 506 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,120 Cos you're having a few drinks. 507 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:08,280 What else have you done? 508 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:10,080 I did a cheese wheel competition. 509 00:23:10,120 --> 00:23:12,480 Is that when they run down the hill? That is when they run down the hill. 510 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,280 So I did that in Australia. 511 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,080 Funnily enough, I ended up winning it. 512 00:23:16,120 --> 00:23:17,480 So I won the National... Did you actually? 513 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:20,040 ..Australian Cheese Wheel competition, yeah. 514 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,200 I do think she likes my crazy stories. 515 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:25,400 It puts a smile on her face, and I'm glad she's here for it 516 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:29,680 because otherwise...I don't know what I'd tell her. 517 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:31,320 So, I won like, this massive, 518 00:23:31,360 --> 00:23:34,480 like, six-kilo block of cheese. 519 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,320 With Leo, so far, it's definitely fun. 520 00:23:36,360 --> 00:23:37,960 I'm really happy I've been paired with someone 521 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,240 who is up for anything. 522 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:43,400 But at the minute, it is all very, like, surface-level. 523 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,280 I'm looking forward to having more conversations, 524 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:49,000 a few more chats, more deep chats, and see how we get on. 525 00:23:57,120 --> 00:23:58,120 What a day! 526 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,520 So tonight there's been a bit of a problem. 527 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:05,000 How are you feeling? How's the nose? 528 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,080 Better now. Yeah? 529 00:24:07,120 --> 00:24:09,560 Reiss and I were walking down to the bar, 530 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,200 and I seen this little dog, 531 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,400 went down to stroke it, and boom, 532 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,360 straight in the face, got a little bite. 533 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,240 I had to go to the hospital, 534 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,200 and I actually had to text Reiss to come with me. 535 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,280 Just finished at the hospital. 536 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:24,320 Fucking hell. 537 00:24:24,360 --> 00:24:25,800 He's raging. Reiss is raging. 538 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,560 He's had to come with me just to get 539 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:30,520 an injection in the nose, one in the arm. 540 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:32,200 But we're surviving. 541 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,360 The fact that I had to ask him to go, 542 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:35,640 I didn't like that. 543 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:44,120 I think...your husband should just come with you. 544 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:46,320 I shouldn't have to ask you to do something. 545 00:24:46,360 --> 00:24:48,320 That should be automatic. It was a little scratch. 546 00:24:48,360 --> 00:24:50,280 It doesn't matter. You wasn't hurt. I knew it was a scratch. 547 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:51,480 It's a plaster. You're fixed. 548 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:52,800 Do you know what I'm saying? It was nothing. 549 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:54,840 But it's totally you're missing the point. 550 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:56,520 It's got nothing to do with the scratch. 551 00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:58,760 That's what I mean, like, 552 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:00,440 why are you getting naggy now about something like that? 553 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,360 No, cos you're missing the point. I come to the hospital, didn't I? 554 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:03,440 I come with you in the end, didn't I? 555 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:04,640 I know you did because I had to ask you. 556 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:06,800 Well, don't be saying, "You weren't going to come with me," then. 557 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,440 Because you weren't. 558 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,360 The things that we're rowing about, I don't understand. 559 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:16,200 We're rowing about just the most insane, crazy, stupid shit. 560 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:17,360 Like, what do you want me to do? 561 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,000 It's getting... It's getting hard. 562 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,560 If anything happened to you, like you had to go somewhere 563 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,120 you didn't really want to go in a foreign country 564 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:26,160 I would just go with you, 565 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:27,720 and you wouldn't even need to ask me. 566 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,080 I come to hospital in the end, like, we sorted it. 567 00:25:30,120 --> 00:25:32,040 But, like, now, it's like we keep going over it. 568 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:33,720 But that's what I'm saying, I just needed you there. 569 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:36,960 I'm just trying to get to the bottom of who he is. 570 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:40,680 Cos I just need to know before anything goes, 571 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,120 you know, further down the line and I end up getting hurt. 572 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,600 Three days in, like, rowing over stuff. 573 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:49,400 Like, it's just so irrelevant. 574 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,040 Like, come on. 575 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:52,840 If it's going to be like this from the beginning, 576 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,800 I don't know if I'll be able to last right until the end. 577 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:12,080 You won't want chicken on yours, will ya? 578 00:26:12,120 --> 00:26:13,360 No, thanks. 579 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,240 Back in London, Leah and Leigh are the final couple 580 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,920 to take part in In-Laws week. 581 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,920 They'll be hosting Leigh's friend, Nicole, and Leah's friend, Paula. 582 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,240 What do you reckon she's going to be like when she gets here? 583 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:26,640 I think she's just going to be buzzing. 584 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:28,480 I think she's going to be well excited to see us 585 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:29,920 and see what's been happening. 586 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:33,680 Where are you and Leigh now? 587 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,600 During Experts Week, Leah spoke about the insecurities 588 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,440 Leigh was experiencing in their relationship. 589 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,080 Leigh thought I'd come up to you in a bar and was like, 590 00:26:44,120 --> 00:26:46,360 "Hey, Rebecca, I fancy you." 591 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,240 I think you'd said, like, 592 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,960 "Rebecca's more my type. Gym girl, dark hair." 593 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,320 There was literally nothing in it. 594 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:58,800 I hope she likes my pizzas. 595 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:00,920 I don't think In-Laws week could have come at a better time. 596 00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,160 I feel like me and Leah both just need 597 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:04,880 that advice from someone from home 598 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,440 that knows us really well, 599 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,200 can put us in the right direction. 600 00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:11,560 Hi! Oh. 601 00:27:14,360 --> 00:27:16,840 Hi. Are you OK? Yeah, yeah. Aw. 602 00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:18,640 How yous been? Good. Good. 603 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,520 I can't wait to tell Nicole about everything that's been going on, 604 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:25,080 so I can get honest advice from someone that knows me so well. 605 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,120 Hello. Aw. 606 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:30,920 I'm good. How are you? OK. 607 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:32,880 These are all for you. Well, you can share them. 608 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,760 You all right? Hi, how are you? 609 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,040 I'm actually so made up that I'm seeing Paula. 610 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:40,160 Like, I've needed a face that I just know from home. 611 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:41,280 You all right? 612 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:43,320 I think Paula will be a little bit shocked 613 00:27:43,360 --> 00:27:45,880 if I start telling her everything that's been happening. 614 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:47,200 She'll be like, 615 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,600 "You're losing yourself. What's going on?" 616 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:50,720 So I know from the wedding day, 617 00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,640 you was quite keen to make like a, build on, start on a friendship. 618 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:54,840 Yeah, yeah. So are you definitely there? 619 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,840 We definitely did that. Is there anything romantic, 620 00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:58,600 or is it going anywhere? 621 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:01,240 Um... 622 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,240 That's the bit that we've struggled on. 623 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,680 Obviously, Leah's like made it clear what her usual type is, 624 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,120 you know, like, brunette gym girl, like, that type of person. 625 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,560 And then there's a girl in another couple. 626 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,320 She's like that to a T. 627 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:19,360 I just felt like Leah was being a little bit overfamiliar with her. 628 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,120 Nothing's happened. Don't look at me like that. 629 00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,120 It just made me feel a little bit of a type of way. 630 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:25,720 I think there was a bit of jealousy there. 631 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,280 And that to me in that moment was like, 632 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,080 "Well, there's obviously some sort of feeling there 633 00:28:29,120 --> 00:28:30,560 "cos otherwise I wouldn't feel that way." 634 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:33,240 Just to like make it all clear. 635 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,080 Like, there's absolutely nothing with Rebecca at all. 636 00:28:35,120 --> 00:28:37,040 Like, the actual conversations were happening. 637 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:41,200 We were all in the pub, and Nelly, Rebecca, and Sarah. 638 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:42,720 And they're like, "What would be your normal type?" 639 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,080 I was like, "Oh, like, normally go for like dark hair 640 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,520 "like gym girl kind of vibe." 641 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,760 And one of them was like, "Like, that's Rebecca." 642 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:50,800 That was it. 643 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,640 I didn't say a word, do you know what I mean? 644 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,840 I didn't realise that that conversation actually happened, 645 00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:56,400 though, cos you've been telling me this whole time 646 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,000 that that conversation never happened. 647 00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:59,080 They said what my type was. 648 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:00,120 I never said, "Rebecca." 649 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,600 I've just said, "Dark hair, gym girl." 650 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,200 I didn't know that you said that. 651 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:05,800 You actually did say that that was your type? 652 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:08,880 Whole time. You know this whole thing. You knew that. 653 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,000 Cos you've denied it the whole time. 654 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:13,400 I've denied saying Rebecca 655 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,360 was my type when she's in the circle with me. 656 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,960 I haven't denied saying dark hair... We all know gym...dark hair... 657 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,320 I know that. I know that's your type. 658 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,320 I just didn't know that that's what happened in that conversation. 659 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:23,080 That wasn't the argument... But can I actually just ask, 660 00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:24,760 why does that upset you so much? 661 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:28,080 I don't like being lied to. I haven't lied... 662 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:29,520 The whole lie was me going 663 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,560 up to a girl in a bar saying, "You're my type." 664 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,200 Yeah, but I didn't know that you had that conversation at all. 665 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:35,600 It does sound a bit silly. 666 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,280 I honestly think that this all just needs to be stopped. 667 00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,240 It all just went tits up. It went from 0 to 100. 668 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:46,240 She's got a lot of past trauma from getting lied to, cheated on. 669 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,440 So any little thing I do, 670 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,320 she jumps on it and thinks I'm lying straight away. 671 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,440 I'm so glad Paula was there to witness that. 672 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:03,320 You could feel the energy just switch. 673 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,320 Yeah. It sounds so ridiculous. 674 00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,320 Like, it's such a nothing thing... I know. 675 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,480 ..to be made into such a big thing. 676 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:11,800 You haven't done anything wrong. 677 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:14,120 Yeah. The whole thing annoyed me. I can't lie. 678 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:15,920 When you know there's absolutely nothing there... 679 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:17,440 She either trusts you or she doesn't. 680 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,800 I think after the last week, although it's been rough, 681 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:23,960 that, to me, has told me 682 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,640 that there are feelings there. Yeah. Because you know me, 683 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:30,120 I wouldn't get... Your back wouldn't be up straight away with 684 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,200 something like that if you didn't have feelings for her. Oh... 685 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:33,880 Although I've been completely honest 686 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,080 about certain things not being there, 687 00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:37,520 like the physical element not being there, 688 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,520 it's because I'm not gonna, like, fake something 689 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,720 or pretend something's there when it's not. 690 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,080 All I need from her in certain situations 691 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:45,640 is just a bit of understanding 692 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,800 and we can move on from it. But I don't get that from her always. 693 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:53,160 I'm trying to get past my head that she's not my type, and I am. 694 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,120 Sometimes she just... Do you feel that back though? 695 00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:58,440 No. I don't feel that back. She's telling me all the things 696 00:30:58,480 --> 00:30:59,560 that are wrong and I'm like, "OK, 697 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,200 "I'm sorry I've made you feel that way." And, like, 698 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,920 I'm making sure I'm listening to her. And then I'm coming to her, 699 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:06,400 I'm like, "Listen, I don't want to fall out with you. 700 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,440 "You mean a lot to me. Give me a hug." She doesn't want it. 701 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:09,840 But what's she giving to this? 702 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:13,720 If you're saying that you're meeting her in the middle 703 00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:15,560 and telling her you can hear her and you're listening 704 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,240 and you want to work on this and will work on that, 705 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:18,840 what more does she actually want from you? 706 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,640 It gets to a point where, like, if you're giving so much 707 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,360 for however many weeks and you're getting nothing back, 708 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:27,800 why am I bothering? 709 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:31,880 For me, I'm literally trying every day. 710 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:34,320 And that's why I'm getting to a point now where I'm like, 711 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:36,800 "I've got to be in this with someone who's got my back." 712 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:38,760 And I didn't feel like I had that from her this week. 713 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,000 The sun has finally come out while we're on our hike. 714 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,400 There she is. 715 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,120 My wonderful wife. 716 00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:58,720 The newly married couples 717 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,120 are almost halfway through their honeymoons. 718 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,960 I never knew dogs had so much power. They're pretty fast, 719 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,680 ain't they? Yeah, right. 720 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,960 It is so romantic being in the sleds. 721 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:13,080 It's a massive bonus that I've got April there to keep me warm. 722 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:14,720 Right, you ready? 723 00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:29,400 This is nice, isn't it? Definitely warmed up from earlier. 724 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,160 Uh... 725 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,480 Me and April have got a really good vibe together. 726 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:34,520 Give us a smooch! 727 00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,360 It's just all going so well at the moment, 728 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:41,360 and I don't want to say something that's gonna put her off me. 729 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:42,520 Cheers. Cheers. 730 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:48,000 After being single for so long, 731 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,760 going straight into spending every day with me so far, 732 00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:53,680 how are you finding it? So far, so good. Yeah? Um... 733 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:55,040 Must be a bit of adjustment for you, though. 734 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:57,600 I think it would have been if I was matched with someone 735 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:58,920 that I didn't get on with. 736 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:02,920 Yeah. Then I think we'd have a few hiccups. Thank you. 737 00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,240 What would you say your love language is though? 738 00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:12,600 I guess words of affirmation. Yeah. To know what they're thinking. 739 00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,840 Do you reckon that's because of, like, past experiences? 740 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:20,280 Yeah. 741 00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:26,600 Have you had bad past experiences? Yeah. 742 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:35,760 I'm trying to get deeper with Leo and talk about more in depth stuff. 743 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,280 It is really important to me to have 744 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,560 the depth and have those conversations. 745 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,000 It's not always nice bringing up the past, 746 00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:43,760 but they're conversations that need to be had. 747 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,280 I do struggle to trust people, for sure, 748 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,600 so I think that will be a challenge for me. 749 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,840 I think... But my worry is about bringing anything forward 750 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,000 from my past relationships. I hope I don't. 751 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,960 So I guess it's only natural. Yeah, you can't really help it, but... 752 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:04,680 Yeah. 753 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:09,200 Hopefully, you know, all the scars are healed and...can move on. 754 00:34:09,240 --> 00:34:10,640 But, yeah. 755 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:19,040 I guess it is a worry that he doesn't ask a lot of questions. 756 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:22,200 You know, there's not a lot of depth or substance to our conversations. 757 00:34:22,240 --> 00:34:23,360 I honestly don't know how you build 758 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:25,720 a strong connection without having depth. 759 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:26,960 Deeper chats need to come in. 760 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:42,920 Hello! 761 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,800 I woke up a little bit stressed after yesterday. 762 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:49,480 Just getting a bit boring now all this rowing. To me, it seems a bit 763 00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,160 too soon to be having, like, disagreements. 764 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:53,360 So it does ring alarms. 765 00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:59,000 The most difficult thing I find is a relationship with 766 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:00,560 somebody who's a closed book, 767 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:03,920 who's not honest. I need to know how they're feeling. 768 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:05,280 I'm very direct and very straight 769 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:06,960 and I want to tell somebody how it is. 770 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,120 I need to thrash it out today. 771 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:15,080 I feel like we need to chat about last night. 772 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,400 You was getting angry because I wasn't being 773 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:20,320 a certain way. That was getting my back up. 774 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:25,440 Yeah. Like, trying to force me to be someone I'm not. 775 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:28,720 The load of pressure so early on. 776 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,480 It's just, I know what I want. I need to get there quickly. 777 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:32,720 You know what you want, 778 00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:34,920 but you're not going to find what you want with me within... 779 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:36,000 You know what I mean? 780 00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:40,600 If it's so rushed, for me, it's like, "Oh, like..." 781 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,240 It's way too much pressure getting chucked in way too early. 782 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,360 What you are going to do is push me away. 783 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:49,240 Yeah, it's a lot. It's a lot for me, I'm not going to lie. 784 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:52,360 I want to know, like, the intention. 785 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:54,560 And I need to find out who you are. 786 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,360 I want to see every single side of you, get to know each other... 787 00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,880 I know what you're saying, but it's not me. 788 00:35:59,920 --> 00:36:02,400 I don't talk as much as you. I don't mind, like, zoning out. 789 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,400 I'll do my visualising and all that kind of stuff. 790 00:36:06,720 --> 00:36:08,360 Do you visualise me in your future? 791 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,640 Argh, I can't cope with this. You're too much. 792 00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:16,680 I don't need pressure yet. It's so early. I don't like it. 793 00:36:16,720 --> 00:36:19,480 I can tell I'm pushing his buttons a lot. 794 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,440 I can see it in his eyes. 795 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:24,280 I just want to know what his intentions are. 796 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:27,720 If there's a time to be honest, it's now. 797 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:41,720 Do you visualise me in your future? 798 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,240 Argh, I can't cope with this. You're too much. 799 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:49,280 I don't need pressure yet. It's so early. I don't like it. 800 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,520 I know you're saying you want to see the real me and all that. 801 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,400 You ain't going to find that out overnight. 802 00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:58,640 Yeah. You know I'm a closed book. 803 00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:00,680 It might take a while... You know what I'm saying? 804 00:37:00,720 --> 00:37:02,600 So if you're constantly, like, 805 00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:04,560 pressuring me about that, you're just going to keep me closed. 806 00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:10,560 It's just the lack of questions. It makes me feel like you don't... 807 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,800 ..you don't really care about me. 808 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:16,640 Right. So I'm like, I know you fancy me. I want to know, 809 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,200 like, are we going to have a future together? 810 00:37:19,240 --> 00:37:21,000 This is the thing. You want to know my intentions. 811 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,600 Like, do I want a wife? Do I want to settle down? 812 00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:25,760 Do I want children? Yeah. Yes, yes, yes. 813 00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,640 Yeah. I don't know if that's what I want with you, 814 00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,760 knowing you for three days. Do you know what I mean? 815 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,600 I'm just trying to be vulnerable and let you know 816 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,040 my insecurity. I'm not here to attack you. 817 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,680 I just need to know that you're on the same page. 818 00:37:36,720 --> 00:37:40,000 I wouldn't be sat here if I wasn't. Good. 819 00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,080 We need to learn to trust each other. 820 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,640 You need to learn to trust me, to be able to open up to me. 821 00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:49,120 Yeah. And I need to be able to trust that what you're telling me is 100%. 822 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,680 Moving on, if we could just 823 00:37:51,720 --> 00:37:56,760 try and, like...try to just slow the pace down a tad 824 00:37:56,800 --> 00:38:00,120 and then just enjoy this experience together and then just, 825 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:03,960 like, let it just unfold like a little rose. 826 00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:07,560 I hope we do work out. I hope we have all them things, 827 00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,640 children, I hope we stay married. 828 00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,400 It's just, let's just let it develop in a natural way. 829 00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:13,920 I need to shhh. 830 00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:17,360 I do actually respect him because 831 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:20,960 he's not going to go with it just to keep the peace. 832 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:23,480 Like, I think he is genuinely trying to see 833 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,240 whether there is a connection. 834 00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,560 Hopefully he understands where I'm coming from 835 00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:29,960 and that it's coming from a place of just being, 836 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:31,880 you know, a little bit scared of rejection. 837 00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,040 I still like you. Still like you. 838 00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,440 I am hoping that she took what I said on board, 839 00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:41,080 just so we can move forward. 840 00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:46,080 But I'm just doing my best I can to show her that I do care. 841 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:47,640 But, like, I can't force it, you know? 842 00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:49,320 I can only go at my own pace. 843 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:52,680 How's your nose? Swollen. Do you want to see it? Let's see. 844 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:55,280 Oh. 845 00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,720 GIGGLING 846 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:07,600 I feel so comfortable with John. 847 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:11,120 Not only are we in a good place emotionally, but I think also that 848 00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,640 sexual kind of chemistry side is definitely growing. 849 00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:17,280 Oh, I'm excited. I feel like I need to relax. 850 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:18,920 Abby looks great. 851 00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:22,200 Her body's amazing. 852 00:39:22,240 --> 00:39:24,880 This does definitely feel like the natural next step. 853 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:26,840 I'm hoping that she's open 854 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,520 to me putting my hands on her body a little bit more. 855 00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:36,320 He's kind of like a cowboy, just like... 856 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,000 SHE LAUGHS 857 00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:41,400 I don't want to say that I was, like, his horse. 858 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,480 THEY LAUGH 859 00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:48,720 How's that? You're really good with your hands. 860 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:53,840 The fact that we're able to do something 861 00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:55,680 like this and explore one another, 862 00:39:55,720 --> 00:39:58,880 I know that whatever comes next will be even better. 863 00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,440 It's really nice that I can just look into your eyes now. 864 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:08,800 And honestly I feel like you have such amazing eye contact, 865 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,120 and I find that really attractive. 866 00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:17,080 Abby's great at this. It's definitely... This is incredible. 867 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:22,600 We both are physically drawn to each other, 868 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,960 so I think we just need to kind of enjoy that. 869 00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:28,800 I want to explore more of that side with John. 870 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:40,240 Abby makes me feel great. And I just want to continue 871 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:43,240 to give Abby everything that she needs. 872 00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:46,080 I'm just so proud that she's my wife. 873 00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,640 This is the strongest I've ever felt about someone. 874 00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:51,720 And I'm really excited for where this relationship can end up. 875 00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:54,920 I feel like I do trust John 876 00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,080 and I feel so comfortable around him. 877 00:40:57,120 --> 00:41:00,360 And I've never felt like this about someone before. 878 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:04,120 I can't wait to see what future lies ahead for both of us. 879 00:41:12,720 --> 00:41:18,440 One, two. Yes. Kick. Nice. Elbow. Elbow. 880 00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,320 Yes. Kick. Kick, last one. 881 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:25,200 All right, that's it. Champion! 882 00:41:25,240 --> 00:41:27,800 This morning, me and Leisha were good. Like, very nice. 883 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,720 I couldn't be more happier. We get each other now, I feel like. 884 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:31,880 I'm knackered. 885 00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:34,720 And she's just relaxing a bit, which takes the pressure off of me 886 00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:38,040 and allows me to actually become more drawn to Leisha. 887 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:42,360 You looked good. So did you. I was surprised. Good. 888 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,360 So how long have you been boxing for? 889 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,640 Um, about ten years. Well, how many games have you won? 890 00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:50,080 I've had six fights. Six fights. I've won all six. Have you? 891 00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,920 Yeah. So you've never lost? No. I think you'd lose to me. 892 00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,680 Yeah, probably. After seeing you in there... Yeah. 893 00:41:55,720 --> 00:41:57,680 I'd be shaking in my boots... Would you?! Yeah. 894 00:41:57,720 --> 00:42:00,600 You're lying.Nah, I'm joking. LAUGHTER 895 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,360 If you were to have children, do you want to 896 00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,520 get them involved in boxing or...? 897 00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,280 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Even if it's a girl? 898 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:10,760 Uh, no. No. If it's a girl, like, maybe... 899 00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:12,960 ..I don't know, she could do ballet or something. 900 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,480 But, like... Yeah. A boy, 901 00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:16,080 yeah, I'd definitely try to encourage him to, 902 00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:17,880 like...try and take him down to the gym with me, 903 00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:21,040 buy him some sick gloves, see what he thinks of it. 904 00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:24,120 It was so nice to sit down with Reiss and, 905 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:26,520 like, actually have a really meaningful conversation. 906 00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:28,080 He's opening up to me now. 907 00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:30,760 I am really appreciating it and I am enjoying it. 908 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:38,880 I'm excited. This looks like it's going to be really cute. 909 00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:40,080 It does look really cool. 910 00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:41,640 Little cabin in the forest. 911 00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:43,440 I can't believe it's the last night of our honeymoon. 912 00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:45,440 I've just had the best time with April. 913 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:48,240 There's nothing that stands out that gets on my nerves. 914 00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:49,960 It's just been a lot of fun. 915 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,800 I'm just hoping there's nothing that I do that gets on her nerves. 916 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,440 This is adorable. It is. 917 00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:00,920 It's lovely to see you without 918 00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:02,880 the thermals, waterproofs and a bobble hat. 919 00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:06,640 What are you talking about? It's my sexiest look. It is. 920 00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:11,000 Me leading the conversation, not having deep conversations, 921 00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,400 it's still bothering me. I am going to address it tonight, 922 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,600 just so we can have, you know, 923 00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,560 open and honest communication. 924 00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:19,680 He just needs to know where I stand. 925 00:43:19,720 --> 00:43:23,760 I think, as honeymoons go, this has been weird and wonderful, 926 00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:25,440 but that's the best way to describe it. 927 00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:31,840 Well, I suppose it's what I asked the experts for, really, 928 00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:33,840 is someone that's very unique, 929 00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,680 confident, not your general plain Jane, 930 00:43:36,720 --> 00:43:39,040 and I think they have delivered very well. 931 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,400 For me, there aren't any negatives. 932 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:48,720 Yeah. What about you? 933 00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:58,040 I said to you I would be, you know, open and honest and... 934 00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:01,760 ..at the end of the day, like, you're a really good guy, but... 935 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:03,880 there's a concern on my end 936 00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:07,040 that I almost feel like I lead the conversations quite a lot. 937 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,080 What, are you feeling like I don't want to... 938 00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:13,840 ..engage with you and learn more about you? 939 00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:18,880 Yeah, that's a concern for me. 940 00:44:20,720 --> 00:44:23,720 I feel like we've been doing so many activities, it's... Hmm. 941 00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:27,280 We haven't had a lot of time to actually sit down 942 00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:30,920 and ask each other these personal questions. 943 00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:32,000 I disagree. 944 00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,560 Nah, nah, I definitely disagree with that. 945 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:37,640 It's so untrue. 946 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:40,320 There's definitely been times where, 947 00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:41,880 you know, we could have gone a lot deeper. 948 00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:43,800 We could have had those conversations. 949 00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:45,200 It isn't true. 950 00:44:45,240 --> 00:44:47,400 Emotional connections and, you know, depth in a relationship 951 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:51,000 is really important to me and I don't know how you build on that 952 00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:52,840 when I'm just doing all the talking. 953 00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:59,480 It's obviously something that I need to work on, so... Mmm. 954 00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,440 I think that stems back 955 00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:04,720 to how I've lived my life for the last five years. 956 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:05,800 I've almost... 957 00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:09,520 You've met the hot dog. 958 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,760 That's a way of me expressing myself to the world 959 00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,480 without letting other people in. 960 00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:17,400 What do you mean? Almost like a facade. 961 00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,880 It's this extroverted mask that I put on. 962 00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:22,800 I feel like it's just a coping mechanism. 963 00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:26,240 It's very easy to connect with people 964 00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,600 while I'm being this extroverted, bombastic guy 965 00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,080 that just goes around carefree. 966 00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:34,760 I have tried really, really hard. 967 00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:38,200 You have met Leo. But I do rely on some of the techniques 968 00:45:38,240 --> 00:45:39,560 that I've used in the past 969 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,320 to give me a little bit more confidence. 970 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,480 What sort of techniques are you on about? 971 00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:46,800 Like, is it stuff that you want to dive into or you want to just...? 972 00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:49,960 Well, no, I think it's just me being extra extroverted. 973 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:51,440 Hmm. What, do you think 974 00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,000 naturally you're a bit more of an introvert than you let on? 975 00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:59,240 There's definitely a bit of me that is a lot more introverted. 976 00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:02,200 See, that's good to know! That's what I want to know. 977 00:46:02,240 --> 00:46:05,480 No, this is good. This is progress. 978 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,000 I am very much an extrovert. 979 00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:08,560 That is just me. 980 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:11,600 But I don't need to date somebody who is like me. 981 00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:16,720 Him being an introverted extrovert is completely fine. 982 00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:18,400 That's who he is. 983 00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:22,880 It's reassuring for me to know that you are wanting... 984 00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,400 ..you know, the depth in a relationship. 985 00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:27,000 It's not because I don't want to know. 986 00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:28,960 It's just...it's been a long time 987 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:32,680 since I've been with someone that I like. 988 00:46:32,720 --> 00:46:36,280 Mmm. And, yeah, it has... Do you like me? Is that what you're saying? 989 00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:39,440 I do like you, that's for sure. This has been progress, 990 00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:40,520 so thank you. 991 00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:45,320 It scares me to let someone in to the real me 992 00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:48,200 because it's just been so long and I've been hurt in the past. 993 00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:51,400 But the more and more time we spend together, 994 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,320 the more and more of Leo she is going to see. 995 00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:07,320 Cheers to us. Cheers to us. 996 00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:12,560 Ooh! Lovely drop of agua. 997 00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:18,920 Crazy to think it's the final night of the honeymoon. 998 00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:20,960 We've known each other for a week now. 999 00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,120 There's a lot to chat about and just kind of, 1000 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,320 like, reflect on the last couple of days, 1001 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:26,760 so I'm excited for tonight. 1002 00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:30,720 So, what would you say is your favourite day from the honeymoon? 1003 00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,320 I enjoyed the boat ride. Did you? Yeah. 1004 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,160 Yeah. Yeah, because that was our best chat, I think. Yeah. 1005 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:37,960 So that's why I enjoyed it. 1006 00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:39,840 I feel like, since that chat, 1007 00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:41,880 I've just enjoyed it so much more, like. 1008 00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:43,920 Oh, seriously? Yeah. So that chat done us a world of good, 1009 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:45,840 didn't it? It has. I feel like we've been so much better. 1010 00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,400 I think I just came in with, like, 1011 00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:52,360 high expectations and I feel like I've just had to, like... 1012 00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:55,800 Chill. Yeah. I think I just put too much pressure on, like, myself, 1013 00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:58,640 on you, and it just wasn't fair. 1014 00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:03,000 Leisha is calm. I did at the beginning have my doubts. 1015 00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:05,280 But we've grown. Since when I first met her 1016 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:06,920 till now, we've come a long way. 1017 00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:10,160 I feel like you definitely teach me to slow my mind. 1018 00:48:11,240 --> 00:48:13,000 You don't overthink everything. 1019 00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:16,760 I feel like you definitely, you know, bring that... 1020 00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:20,560 Side out of you? Yeah, which is lovely. Oh, good. Yeah. 1021 00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:22,560 I still feel like you're... 1022 00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:24,480 ..you're opening slowly. 1023 00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:28,240 You're like a first chapter. You're like a big book. 1024 00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:30,600 And I've just got to the start of the big book. 1025 00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,480 We've sort of worked out each other's boundaries a little bit now. 1026 00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:34,320 Yeah. It took us, like, a few days to work it out, didn't it? 1027 00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:37,040 Yeah. Like, now I feel like we understand each other a bit more 1028 00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:40,720 and it's, like, just... It's easy to live with you. Yeah? Yeah. 1029 00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:43,400 That's nice. Do you not think I'm annoying you now? 1030 00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:44,440 No. 1031 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:48,800 I feel like I'm happy as well. 1032 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:50,800 Like, sharing a bed with you every night. 1033 00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:55,920 We've been intimate... Mmm. ..a few times. 1034 00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:57,920 LEISHA GIGGLES 1035 00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:00,200 Easy. 1036 00:49:00,240 --> 00:49:02,480 Do you know? It's not just all about, like, sexual connection... 1037 00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,840 Romance. ..romance and stuff. Obviously, we've got that, which 1038 00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:07,920 is great, but so much more to that. 1039 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:09,200 Like, now that I've got to know you, 1040 00:49:09,240 --> 00:49:12,720 every day, I'm just like, "Wow, he's just..." 1041 00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,720 You're just... Yeah, you're, like, perfect, really... Oh! 1042 00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:17,160 ..for me, anyways. 1043 00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,720 I asked for someone with stunning eyes and a gorgeous smile. Aw. 1044 00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:22,520 You tick both of them boxes. Nice. 1045 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:26,000 The banter - I asked for someone who I can, like, have a laugh with. 1046 00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:27,960 Yeah. And we definitely have that too. 1047 00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,400 I like the stage I'm at with Leisha. She's got a heart of gold. 1048 00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:33,840 I'm comfortable around her. 1049 00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:36,000 We have a laugh and I'm definitely attracted to her. 1050 00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,040 I'm excited to see what the future holds for us. 1051 00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:41,440 I'm happy. Complete. Complete. Yeah. 1052 00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:44,440 I'm falling for Reiss hard. 1053 00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:48,440 And I feel like it's a deeper connection with Reiss. 1054 00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:49,960 So, yeah, I'm... 1055 00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:52,480 ..I'm falling, obviously. Of course I am! 1056 00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:54,360 LEISHA SQUEALS Cos he is perfect. 1057 00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:56,360 He's everything I asked for. 1058 00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,240 I'm so happy with Reiss 1059 00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:02,080 and I really, really, really hope that we fall in love. 1060 00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:10,400 Next time... Hi! Oh, hello. 1061 00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,760 ..the dinner party's new arrivals steal the spotlight... 1062 00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:15,640 They're hot. Blue eyes. 1063 00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:17,120 Oh, of course you fucking noticed. 1064 00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:19,920 I like to meet somebody and there's, like, that flirty vibe. 1065 00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:21,000 I'm pissed off. 1066 00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:22,600 ..but Leisha's debut... 1067 00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:23,680 Everybody else is holding hands. 1068 00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,480 ..fails to impress... 1069 00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:32,880 Do you think you should be sat on a plane talking to a boy? 1070 00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:36,040 I've had past relationships. That's never been a problem. 1071 00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,160 Um...no. 1072 00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:40,240 Babe, you've just had a honeymoon with this man. 1073 00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:42,080 I felt disrespected. 1074 00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,160 ..and candid questions... 1075 00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:46,240 Do you feel like there's a spark? 1076 00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:47,440 No. 1077 00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,200 What am I supposed to say?! 1078 00:50:49,240 --> 00:50:51,280 ..cause a marital meltdown. 1079 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:53,360 Just can't keep doing it. 1080 00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:55,680 I can't change my feelings. 1081 00:50:56,920 --> 00:51:00,240 Subtitles by Red Bee Media